There are
teachings in the Bible that are not the easiest things to accept.
Depending upon our own situation, some things may be more difficult than
others. The temptation is that, when faced with a teaching that is not
exactly what we want, we might "smooth" it down just a bit in order to
make it more palatable. In other words, we might even "rearrange" some
of God's teachings in order to make them fit what we like, rather than
being determined to change our lives to fit what the Bible teaches.
The wicked
king Ahab was not a friend of true prophets. When desiring to go to war
against Ramoth-gilead, with Jehoshaphat as an ally, he called his own
prophets to tell him what he wanted to hear (2 Chron. 18).
Jehoshaphat knew better, so he asked if there was "yet a prophet of the
Lord that we may inquire of him?" Ahab was now going to have to face
what he didn't want: the truth. "There is yet one man by whom we may
inquire of the Lord, but I hate him, for he never prophesies good
concerning me but always evil. He is Micaiah, son of Imla" (vs. 7). Sure
enough, Micaiah told Ahab what he didn't want to hear, and Ahab had
Micaiah locked up for it. It wasn't that Micaiah was mean or ugly about
what he said; it's just that he told the truth.
God's
people were warned by Isaiah about making an alliance with Egypt. They
wanted to "execute a plan, but not" the Lord's (Isa. 30:1).
Through Isaiah, God said that these were "rebellious people ... who
refuse to listen to the instruction of the Lord." Their attitude was
manifest in their desire for the smooth things: "Who say to the seers,
'You must not see visions' ; and to the prophets, 'You must not prophecy
to us what is right, speak to us pleasant words (i.e., smooth things),
prophesy illusions. Get out of the way, turn aside from the path, let us
hear no more about the Holy One of Israel'" (vv. 9-11). They had
their own desires and really didn't care about what God had to say. This
is a continual danger today.
We find a
similar warning in the New Testament. Timothy was told to "preach the
word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort,
with great patience and instruction" (2 Tim. 4:2). The urgency of
being committed to preaching the word is seen in the next verses: "For
the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but wanting
to have their ears tickled, they will accumulate for themselves teachers
in accordance to their own desires, and will turn away their ears from
the truth and will turn aside to myths" (vv. 3-4). Again, the
temptation is that, when faced with difficult teachings, we may
disregard truth in favor of the "smooth things." There will always be
teachers who will smooth out the difficult things of God.
So we must
examine our hearts. What do we really want to hear? Probably all would
say that they want the "truth." Even Ahab said that. But in reality what
we might really want is a smidgen of truth mixed with a lot of fluff.
"Make us feel good about ourselves." "Build our self-esteem." "Just give
us the positive." So the road is paved toward accumulating for ourselves
teachers according to our own desires. Better be careful.
Even
things that we hear a lot about may not be the easiest to accept. I
believe that one of the most difficult statements is in Luke 9:23:
"If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up
his cross daily and follow Me." We hear it; we preach it. But we still
must admit that self-denial is, at best, difficult to swallow. We may
even think we are practicing it, but then find ourselves swelling up
with pride and selfish ambition. I would venture to say that herein lies
the problem in most divisions within local congregations (see Phil.
2:3-4). It's not as easy as we think, for selfishness is too often
rearing its ugly head.
Concerning
an issue such as marriage and divorce, the disciples understood what
Jesus had to say about it as being difficult: "If the relationship of
the man with his wife is like this, it is better not to marry" (Matt.
19:10).
What Jesus said was strict enough that it caused the disciples to
recognize that it was not the easiest teaching in the world. Our goal
then, in dealing with an issue like this, is to arrive at truth, no
matter how difficult it may be, rather than attempting to speak things
that people selfishly want to hear because it accommodates their
situation. This is true of any issue.
Worldliness, modesty, and a host of other issues can be rather difficult
to hear for us. We don't want to hear about the things we must "give up"
in order to faithfully serve the Lord. We don't like to hear those
things that would cause us to make changes, however drastic, in our
lives. We don't like to hear about the sins of which we may be guilty.
So the ever-present temptation is, once again, to smooth out the
difficult things and adapt God's word to our lives, rather than desiring
to adapt our lives to fit the teachings of God's word. Even saying these
things are difficult for me; I'm as guilty as anyone.
Attitude
toward truth is really what's at issue here. Most of us say we want
truth; now only each individual can look deeply enough into his or her
heart to know if he or she really loves it. Just remember that God knows
our hearts as well, and no matter how much we say it, if we don't love
the truth deep down, delusions may be allowed into our lives so that we
accept lies (2 Thess. 2:10-12). That's a scary thought that
motivates us to really examine ourselves.
Paul thanked God for the attitude of
the Thessalonians, for "when you received the word of God which you
heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but for what it
really is, the word of God, which also performs its work in you who
believe" (1 Thess. 2:13). May God help us all to attain to the same
attitude. When teachings are difficult, let's not try to smooth them out
so that they lose their force; rather, let's admit the obvious and seek
to adjust our lives accordingly.
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