A man, asked recently to describe memories
of his college days twenty-five years ago, replied, "A few big moments; many
goofs, but, overall, pleasant memories."
Would these words not describe our memories
of life generally? As we recall our years, there are always the "big"
moments, the emotional "highs," that we love to relish. Then there are the
"goofs," the embarrassing occasions that just keep coming back to haunt us.
But, through it all, the pleasant memories sufficiently prevail to enable us
to feel generally good about life.
But, in reality, success of failure in life
is not determined by the "big moments" or "the goofs." We will not be
eternally saved on the basis of a few great spiritual achievements or
eternally lost on the basis of a few gross mistakes (assuming they have been
repented of). Life consists of everyday actions and decisions, and it is
these that bring ultimate success or failure, eternal happiness or eternal
damnation. "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and
take up his cross daily, and follow Me"
(Luke 9:23).
It is one thing to express concern for our
children as we talk of their future spirituality and faithfulness. It is
quite another to provide on a daily basis a spiritual atmosphere in the
home, a good example of godliness and faithfulness, consistent and loving
discipline and a love for God and respect for fellowman that are so
essential to the training of our children. It's the little impressions that
are made day by day that prove to be so decisive.
It is one thing to dream of some day being
appointed an elder in the church. It is quite another thing to put forth the
effort on a daily basis to learn the scriptures, to develop leadership
ability, to grow spiritually, and to live as to gain the confidence of a
discerning congregation. One does not qualify for the eldership in one big
leap. It comes through daily development.
It is one thing to talk a "good line" on
priorities. It is quite another thing to put God first on a daily basis. The
devil knows so many ways to test our resolve in these realms. Our intentions
are good, but, through his subtlety, he has us selling our souls for a mess
of pottage or thirty pieces of silver.
It is one thing to think that we would die
for the Lord if our faith were so tested. It is quite another thing truly to
live for Him on a daily basis. Egos may be fed on the "big moments," but
true spirituality develops through daily prayer, study and meditation.
Our lesson is this. Set your goals for the
future, and set them high. But recognize that it's the little, day-by-day
moments, the often forgotten moments, accumulated through the years, that
truly shape our destiny. Tomorrow's success depends upon the choices and
decisions that are made today. Make them with care.