If you are
among those addressed by the title I have some very sincere questions that I
have long wanted to ask someone who might be willing to give genuine,
transparent, and honest answers. The purpose of this article is not to try
to convince you that you are mistaken or to solicit your explanations for
why you believe as you do. We have devoted a good deal of paper and ink to
these purposes over the past several years. Assuming that you have been
around for these attempts at earnest discussion we conclude that you remain
unconvinced after giving your best effort to considering the matter
carefully. You still believe that the "traditional" doctrines and practices
that are common among churches of Christ are mistaken. You believe that we
are legalistic, exclusive, and unreasonably isolated from other religious
bodies. You think that we misunderstand grace and that we have inflexible
ideas about how one becomes a Christian. You are convinced that choirs and
instrumental music in worship are not only allowable, but right and good.
You feel certain that our hermeneutics are not accurate. You are confident
that we are incorrect about the nature and identity of the church. You are
convinced that we are simply one denomination among many and that we are no
better (and probably worse) than the others.
I will
preface my first question with a few comments designed to prevent
misunderstanding. I am not really inviting you to leave us. If you are
content to remain among us without creating division as you continue to
study these matters, I would recommend that you do so. If your feet are
firmly planted and your convictions are fixed, however, my question is this:
Why are you still here? There are religious bodies in your community that
believe, teach, and practice the very things you are seeking. They would
applaud your liberation from legalism and welcome you with open arms. They
would bathe you in love and acceptance. The tension that you feel within
yourself and that you are creating within and between others could be
alleviated in one swift and decisive move.
My second
question: Why did you come among us? You knew who we were when you came. The
church hid nothing from you. You came willingly whether you "grew up in the
church" or, like me, sought out those who were following the Bible as you
then understood it. If your reasons for entering are no longer valid, maybe
it is time to resume your search elsewhere.
Are you
still here because your parents or loved ones were (or are) members? If we
had the right to grant all of the changes that you wish to make, you would
not be a member of what they were members of, -- except for the name on the
sign in front of the building. Do you really want the church of Christ to
become something else, except for the name, only to accommodate your
sentimental need to be associated with a "church of Christ" while, at the
same time, having all that the denominations have to offer? Would it not be
more reasonable to join a denominational group that pleases you and then
work to have them change their name to "church of Christ" while keeping all
else the same? This would cause a good deal less disturbance than the other
way around. It would seem to be a move more consistent with the kind of
unity that you profess to believe in. Even if you, and others who are
like-minded, are successful in convincing a number of people to adopt your
ways you will not have contributed to greater unity. Those of us who are
committed to what we sincerely believe to be the old paths will have to
separate from you (or you from us) and you will have become the hammer that
drove one more wedge of division (a thing that you profess to despise) into
what you consider to be the larger body of Christ.
If you
would be willing to answer these questions, please write. If you would not
like to have your response published, please clearly indicate this when you
write.